Anatomy of an Affair

Anatomy of an Affair
Author: Dave Carder
Publisher: Moody Publishers
Total Pages: 269
Release: 2017-09-05
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 0802496318

When it comes to adultery, never say, “It won’t happen to me.” Just when you think your marriage is safe from adultery is when you may be the most vulnerable. With eye-opening stories, clinical insights, and up-to-date data, Dave Carder reveals what adulterers learned the hard way—and what they want the rest of us to know to save us the pain. Dave Carder, counselor and author of the bestselling Torn Asunder (100,000 in print), is a sought-after expert on issues of adultery. Here he helps you make your marriage adultery-proof by showing you: How attractions can lead to affairs Ways you may be vulnerable to affairs The common ingredients of adultery How to restore intimacy to your marriage How to make wise, protective decisions Marriage is too sacred to be taken casually. Affairs are a very real threat, and they can destroy lives and families. For this reason, Anatomy of an Affair should be on every church leader’s and marriage counselor’s required reading list, and in the home of every married couple. Includes charts and assessments to understand and guard against affairs. This book is the revised edition of Close Calls (2008)

Close Calls

Close Calls
Author: David Carder
Publisher: Moody Publishers
Total Pages: 209
Release: 2008-09-01
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0802479812

Never say never; because just when you think your marriage is safe from adultery is when you may be the most vulnerable. Dave Carder, counselor, author of the bestselling Torn Asunder (100,000 in print), and a sought-after expert on issues of adultery. Now, with eye-opening stories, clinical insights, and up-to-date data, he reveals what adulterers learned the hard way- and want the rest of us to know. For example, every spouse has a "Dangerous Partner Profile" of the kind of person who tempts them. Close Calls should be on every church leader's and marriage counselor's required reading list. Includes charts and assessments.

Intimacy After Infidelity

Intimacy After Infidelity
Author: Steven Solomon
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
Total Pages: 199
Release: 2006-11-01
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1608829685

A Guide to Rebuilding Trust and Intimacy It's devastating to discover that the person you trust the most has betrayed you. You'll be facing some hard questions after learning of your partner's infidelity. You may choose to rebuild your relationship, or you may decide to move on. Whatever the right decision is for you, this book will help you figure out why your partner betrayed you and decide whether you can remain in your relationship. It will also show you new ways to relate that can help you and your partner become a lasting, loving, and committed couple. You'll start by taking a look at the phenomenon of infidelity and the three types of intimacy: self-intimacy, conflict intimacy, and affection intimacy. Then you'll learn about the three kinds of infidelity—those of fear, of loneliness, and of anger—and what each reveals about your relationship. Then it's on to practical exercises that can heal emotional wounds and enable you to recover your ability to trust. Even if you decide not to remain with your current partner, the book will help you make wise relationship choices to "affair-proof" your future relationship.

Torn Asunder

Torn Asunder
Author: David Carder
Publisher:
Total Pages: 0
Release: 2008
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9780802471352

There is hope for recovery from the devastation of extramarital affairs. In "Torn Asunder," Carder provides an overall recovery process from sexual and non-sexual affairs.

The Essential Guide to Surviving Infidelity

The Essential Guide to Surviving Infidelity
Author: Liz Currin, Ph.D.
Publisher: Penguin
Total Pages: 316
Release: 2012-01-03
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1101559624

A thoughtfully written and sensitive guide for anyone dealing with the devastating effects of an affair. For anyone who has been impacted by an affair, the effects can be nothing short of devastating. Licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Liz Currin has years of experience helping couples resolve and repair the damage wrought by the effects of an affair. Through Dr Currin's thoughtful style, readers of The Essential Guide to Surviving Infidelity will learn how affairs start, what to do if a partner is suspected of cheating, how to deal with the emotional impact of an affair, and many other essential steps in the healing process. In addition, Dr. Currin provides clears guideposts to healing a marriage (as well as oneself), moving on, engaging the power of forgiveness, and restoring trust.

His Needs, Her Needs

His Needs, Her Needs
Author: Willard F. Harley, Jr.
Publisher: Revell
Total Pages: 194
Release: 2022-02-08
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1493434373

Time after time, His Needs, Her Needs has topped the charts as the bestselling marriage book available. In this classic book, Willard F. Harley, Jr., identifies the ten most vital needs of men and women and shows husbands and wives how to make their marriage sizzle by satisfying those needs in their spouses. He provides guidance for becoming irresistible to your spouse and for loving more creatively and sensitively, thereby eliminating the problems that often lead to conflict and even extramarital affairs. Join those who have seen spectacular changes in their marriages by following Dr. Harley's tried-and-proven counsel. You will discover that an outstanding marriage can be more than a dream--it can be your reality.

The Hidden Lover

The Hidden Lover
Author: William July II
Publisher: Harmony
Total Pages: 274
Release: 2007-12-18
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 030741941X

The relationship coach returns, delivering straight talk on the bachelor mentality and how women can break through it. In his popular work advising troubled couples and singles, William July II has uncovered certain unmistakable truths about most men, particularly those who think of marriage as a form of torture. Moreover, he's discovered that women often try so hard to conquer their boyfriends' fears that they end up scaring them even more. Now, in The Hidden Lover, July delivers the kind of no-holds-barred dialogue that women and men should have but don't, covering hot topics like these: • Single, Successful, And Not Interested In Marriage! What's Up With That? • Why There is a Hidden Lover Inside Every Man. • Disappearing Acts: How Hidden Lovers Hide While In Relationships. • Women Who Frighten Away Potential Husbands. • I'm Not Superman: How Trying to Be Superman Can Affect a Relationship. Getting to the heart of commitment phobics and the women who fall in love with them, The Hidden Lover offers the kind of realistic, compassionate advice that thousands of not-so-swinging singles have been waiting for.

Attract the Love You Want

Attract the Love You Want
Author: Michelle Dupree
Publisher: Strategic Book Publishing
Total Pages: 123
Release: 2010-08
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 1609116445

Attract the Love You Want is a smorgasbord of romance advice from how to attract the love you want to learning to be successful in love whether you are married or going through a divorce. Twenty-four power-packed chapters will teach you to find your soul mate, be the right soul mate, keep your love alive, rebuild intimacy, find forgiveness, or cope with divorce. After reading this insightful book, you will succeed in love by resolving conflicts with proven techniques rather than just good intentions and broken promises."Michelle literally saved my life. She gave me this book when I was in the depths of despair and it pulled me out of this deep pit. When I would falter, Michelle would hug me and say 'You can do this. You can survive this crisis. You can and will get up one more time." - LaSocca Wigfall, Medical Assistant"Michelle's writing is very powerful, insightful, emotionally charged, convicting and comes from the heart. You come away with your self-esteem renewed." - John Waddell, Engineer