What We Say Matters

What We Say Matters
Author: Ike K. Lasater
Publisher: Shambhala Publications
Total Pages: 177
Release: 2022-08-09
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 1645471047

Drawing from Buddhist and yogic precepts, this practical guide offers tools for becoming a better, more compassionate communicator at home, at work, and in the world Have you ever tried to tell someone what you want only to feel misunderstood and frustrated? Or hesitated to ask for what you needed because you didn't want to burden the other person? Or been stuck in blame or anger that wouldn't go away? Judith and Ike Lasater, long-term students of yoga and Buddhism, experienced dilemmas like these, too. Even though they had studied the yoga principle of satya (truth) and the Buddhist precept of right speech, it was not until they began practicing Marshall Rosenberg's techniques of Nonviolent Communication (NVC) that they understood how to live satya and right speech. In What We Say Matters, Judith and Ike describe their journey through NVC and how speech becomes a spiritual practice based on giving and receiving with compassion—everywhere, all the time—whether at home, at work, or in the world. Their writing is deeply personal, punctuated by their recounts of trial and error, success and failure, laughter and challenge—even in writing this book! They guide you through an introduction to NVC with clear explanations, poignant examples, suggested exercises, and helpful resources. With practice, you'll learn new ways to: • Extend empathy to yourself and others • Distinguish between feelings and needs • Make requests rather than demands • Choose connection over conflict • Create mutually satisfying outcomes

What We Say and How We Say It Matter

What We Say and How We Say It Matter
Author: Mike Anderson
Publisher: ASCD
Total Pages: 256
Release: 2019-02-26
Genre: Education
ISBN: 1416627502

We all want our students to feel safe, collaborate well with others, feel ownership for their learning, and be joyfully engaged in their work. Nevertheless, many teachers end up using language patterns that undermine these goals. Do any of these scenarios sound familiar? We want students to take responsibility for their learning, yet we use language that implies teacher ownership. We want to build positive relationships with students, yet we use sarcasm when we get frustrated. We want students to think learning is fun, yet we sometimes make comments that suggest the opposite. We want students to exhibit good behavior because it's the right thing to do, yet we rely on threats and bribes, which implies students don’t naturally want to be good. What teachers say to students—when they praise or discipline, give directions or ask questions, and introduce concepts or share stories—affects student learning and behavior. A slight change in intonation can also dramatically change how language feels for students. In What We Say and How We Say It Matter, Mike Anderson digs into the nuances of language in the classroom. This book's many examples will help teachers examine their language habits and intentionally improve their classroom practice so their language matches and supports their goals.

Body Language

Body Language
Author: Robert Phipps
Publisher: John Wiley & Sons
Total Pages: 241
Release: 2012-01-17
Genre: Business & Economics
ISBN: 0857081748

Body language matters. From getting a job to getting a pay rise, and from closing a deal to managing the people around you, it makes a big difference. Robert Phipps, one of the world's leading body language experts shows you how to make it work for you. Busting some of the biggest body language myths, Phipps shows how to read other people's body language and to use yours to succeed in business and life. Loaded with practical tips, this book covers everything you ever need to know about body language, in a variety of business situations: Greetings Meetings Partings Presentations Negotiations Motivation Deception Managing Interviewing Disciplining

Say What You Mean

Say What You Mean
Author: Oren Jay Sofer
Publisher: Shambhala Publications
Total Pages: 306
Release: 2018-12-11
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 161180583X

Find your voice, speak your truth, listen deeply—a guide to having more meaningful and mindful conversations through nonviolent communication We spend so much of our lives talking to each other, but how much are we simply running on automatic—relying on old habits and hoping for the best? Are we able to truly hear others and speak our mind in a clear and kind way, without needing to get defensive or go on the attack? In this groundbreaking synthesis of mindfulness, somatics, and Nonviolent Communication, Oren Jay Sofer offers simple yet powerful practices to develop healthy, effective, and satisfying ways of communicating. The techniques in Say What You Mean will help you to: • Feel confident during conversation • Stay focused on what really matters in an interaction • Listen for the authentic concerns behind what others say • Reduce anxiety before and during difficult conversations • Find nourishment in day-to-day interactions “Unconscious patterns of communication create separation not only in our personal lives, they also perpetuate patterns of misunderstanding and violence that pervade our world. With clarity and great insight, Oren Jay Sofer offers teachings and practices that train us to speak and listen with presence, courage, and an open heart.” —Tara Brach, author of Radical Acceptance and True Refuge

Your Cells Are Listening

Your Cells Are Listening
Author: Denae Arias
Publisher: Independently Published
Total Pages: 105
Release: 2019-01-02
Genre:
ISBN: 9781792885976

Are you constantly having to fight off a barrage of self-defeating thoughts such as anxiety, depression, fear, doubt? Do you feel utterly lost, struggling to find your sense of direction or purpose? Desiring love, abundance and perfect health? This guide is for you. The modern world with all the technological advances in psychology and medicine as well as other fields has fooled us into thinking we now have all the answers. This hubris that makes us think that we now have the world figured out has blinded us to fact that truth, magic, and the power to heal ourselves is within us. In this insightful book, Denae Arias uncovers the truth about the human condition, the lies we've been fed our entire lives to keep us from discovering the power behind our thoughts and words and how they can be used to visibly bring about a miraculous transformation in our daily lives. Beaten down and practically bedridden by a growing number of chronic diseases, depression, anxiety, fear and lack, Denae held on to her truth of total healing even though doctors and specialists had told her she would never recover but at best would have to manage her symptoms for life. Determined not to allow chronic illness and others to define her or her quality of life she began talking to her cells and giving them daily instructions that resulted in a complete physical and emotional transformation. From breaking out of religious shackles to healing herself of Lupus, Diabetes, Fibromyalgia, RA, crippling anxiety, depression and fear, Denae uncovered the innate power within her cells. #SHIFT HAPPENSDeeply profound and highly practical with actionable steps and strategies, Your Cells Are Listening is a book that will reconnect you to your higher self and help you get rid of your fear and negative self sabotaging ways while filling your life with healing, drive and purpose.Here's what you're going to discover in Your Cells Are Listening: How to shift your thinking to produce changeThe power within your consciousness Three Universal/Cosmic laws of creation and attraction and how to use themUsing the power of thoughts and words to manifest your reality - What you feel you make realHow to cultivate your "inner child" to bring you happiness and successWho the players are in your life keeping you stuck and defeatedLetting go of past childhood traumasDifferent forms of fear and how to identify themWhy fear is an illusion and how to conquer fear...and much more!Are you ready to meet who you really are and live the life you've dreamed of?Scroll up and click the button buy now and get started on your journey of physical and spiritual healing today!

What Matters at Work

What Matters at Work
Author: Harry M Webne-Behrman
Publisher:
Total Pages: 226
Release: 2020-01-04
Genre:
ISBN: 9781653808533

The Workplace is a critical, high stakes environment. We are expected to be available at all hours, across modes and platforms, all in service to some vague priorities of customer service. We spend much of our lives in the world of work, spending most of our waking hours contemplating how best to earn a living. While we may practically need to "punch the clock" each day, we rarely give one another permission, encouragement, and support to develop more intentional, well-considered ways of approaching such time with a deeper sense of purpose. Fortunately, there is a quiet, powerful revolution occurring within the 21st century organization, and we can notice these forces, harvest their practices, and build upon their insights to focus on What Matters. That's where this Guide comes in: To reflect on What Matters at Work is to consider what has been learned and apply it to the pragmatic realities of work life. Harry Webne-Behrman is a veteran educator, mediator, facilitator, and consultant who has worked with hundreds of businesses, public agencies, community groups, and educational institutions to navigate complex issues and address entrenched challenges. Through his experience, he has developed and adapted a variety of tools and strategies that can help us all focus on What Matters in collaborative, effective processes that are readily applied to diverse workplace situations. What Matters at Work contains: - Dozens of Lessons, Exercises, and Challenges that teach the skills and processes you need to provide leadership regarding the issues that are most important to your work; - Scenarios that offer practice situations for those facilitating these efforts; - Worksheets that provide templates to copy in service to your ongoing learning and growth; - Comprehensive listings of these materials and additional resources to help you access what you need quickly and easily. Align your own Values and work practices with What Matters. Help your work teams and co-workers talk through challenging issues, unlock innovative capacities, and apply their energies to What Matters. Lead your company or organization to fulfill the full scope of its promise and possibility by engaging all of its staff, partners, and customers in What Matters. That's What Matters at Work.

Summary of What We Say Matters – [Review Keypoints and Take-aways]

Summary of What We Say Matters – [Review Keypoints and Take-aways]
Author: PenZen Summaries
Publisher: by Mocktime Publication
Total Pages: 15
Release: 2022-11-28
Genre: Study Aids
ISBN:

The summary of What We Say Matters – Practicing Nonviolent Communication presented here include a short review of the book at the start followed by quick overview of main points and a list of important take-aways at the end of the summary. The Summary of What We Say Matters is a guide to communicating with compassion, openness, and honesty, and it was published in 2009. These ideas explain how to connect with your own needs as well as the needs of others while speaking in a way that clearly conveys your feelings without causing anyone else to suffer. What We Say Matters summary includes the key points and important takeaways from the book What We Say Matters by Judith Hanson Lasater, Ike K. Lasater. Disclaimer: 1. This summary is meant to preview and not to substitute the original book. 2. We recommend, for in-depth study purchase the excellent original book. 3. In this summary key points are rewritten and recreated and no part/text is directly taken or copied from original book. 4. If original author/publisher wants us to remove this summary, please contact us at [email protected].

The Ten Commandments

The Ten Commandments
Author: David A. Oliver
Publisher: Lulu.com
Total Pages: 148
Release: 2016-08-24
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 1365351874

Written with the finger of God nearly 3,500 years ago, the Ten Commandments still provide God's moral standards and principles for worship. While these laws were central to the people of the Old Testament, they remain vital to God's people today. The Ten Commandments is a series of sermons preached from the pulpit of Ashley Baptist Church in Belding, Michigan. These sermons explore several facets of each commandment, and at the same time provide the reader with a big picture statement and point of application. These messages on the Ten Commandments are "profitable" (II Tim.3:16) for practical living, but most importantly, they point to the Jesus Christ as the Savior from sin (Gal.3:24)."